If a lifetime can be likened to a day, then this is Happy Hour!
We saw Toby's aunt and uncle last week as they were passing through WF. The uncle (by marriage) is in his late 70's, way over weight, and keeps a soggy cigar in his mouths and talks around. I could hardly stand to look at him when he talked. It is men like him who give cigars a bad name.
I've known guys like Toby's uncle, too... and I agree with you. I'm not "that guy," thankfully.
Just be polite... that's all I ask.