The primary reason I’m going to Maine this coming week is to honor my oldest granddaughter with my presence on the occasion of her High School graduation. This rite of passage demands something dressier than my normal jeans-tee shirt-boat shoes-with-no-socks, and military-baseball-cap attire. So, I went over to the Big(ger) CityTM yesterday to “shop” for new clothes, something I haven’t done in a couple of years. I do have “dress-up” clothes…when I retired I kept two suits (one light gray, one dark blue) for formal occasions such as weddings and funerals. Anastasia’s graduation is neither, to my way of thinking it’s a “business casual” kind of affair. Sport coat, semi-dressy shirt (and maybe, just maybe, a tie), “nice” slacks, yadda, yadda, yadda. I have all of these items in my current wardrobe, but they are, shall we say, “dated.” I was thinking something newer and, God Forgive me, more stylish might be in order.
Alas, I came away empty-handed. Nothing, and I mean nothing, appealed to me, and it wasn’t for lack of looking, either. Perhaps it’s where I live and the general lack of choice when it comes to shopping. Or perhaps it’s what’s being foisted off on the American male in the name of “fashion.” Or maybe it’s just me. I strongly suspect it’s the latter. Be that as it may, I’m still stuck with my aging wardrobe. In other words: Stress.
Why I Worry, Part LXVII: Ever so often I’ll go off on a rant about liberal indoctrination in The Academy. I haven’t done so lately, so I guess it’s time. Via Bookworm, here’s a tale that simply boggles the mind. In essence, it’s sort of a Ward Churchill tale in reverse: a conservative professor who was suspended and then cashiered by
Klocek has lost his teaching position and school-paid health insurance benefits, and faces a bleak future due to his chronic health problems. He is guilty of a thought-crime, challenging the pro-Palestinian, anti-Israel mindset which has come to dominate the DePaul campus. Klocek’s challenge to this new campus orthodoxy occurred in a cafeteria during a student activities fair last September. For 15-20 minutes, Klocek, who is Catholic, not Jewish, confronted a group of 8 students manning two tables for the groups Students for Justice in
Klocek says the discussion was heated at times, and he admits to raising his voice. He says he told the students that Palestinians were Arabs who lived in the
There is good news, though. Professor Klocek will get his day in court. He is suing
It’s so very ironic that Professor Churchill continues on in his position at
I was treated to a magnificent spectacle last evening from around sunset until about
Hey, Buck –
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your granddaughter’s graduation. It’s wonderful that you’re making the trip for her and family. It will mean a lot to her, I know. What a special day. Will she be college bound? Does she have interests to pursue?
I know what you mean about shopping. Why does it have to be so difficult? I hate shopping! (I always have, though) Like you, I can never find what I want. Is it too much to ask for something comfortable (material and seams that don’t feel weird on your skin), something with decent lines and a pleasant color that suits? I have no sense for fashion though, since it’s not an interest of mine, so maybe I just don’t know how to shop, but I swear that most of what I see is total junk. Where does it all go when nobody buys it? If you gave me $1000 and set me loose in most stores, I’d probably come out empty handed. Or with something I’ll later be sorry I bought. One of my former fellow co-workers would tell me that I just don’t know where to shop. She was wife of a General in the Shah’s army and is very European in her respect for good clothing. I always felt like an American frump next to her. I’m happiest in jeans and hiking boots. So there. (Aw, heck. I know you have to dress up sometimes.) Actually, I have to go to a retirement/engagement party next week at a nice hotel, so guess what I’ll have to do? Anyway, good luck!
Loved hearing about those thunder clouds - you described it so well. I really miss being in big sky country. I loved living in Wyoming for those very reasons. It’s better than television, isn’t it? Do take your camera with you next time! We get some beautiful clouds off the ocean here, but it’s rarely so fast-changing and dramatic.
Buck, it isn't just you. I hate shopping for clothes, too, because of the outlandish things they try to pass off as fashionable these days. Heaven help me if I have to go anywhere that is dress up.
ReplyDeleteI also hate shopping. See a trend here? For me I just hate the whole shopping experience. I like online shopping much better, and fortunately, I can fit in a standard size most of the time. One cool thing I found online is myvirtualmodel.com where you can create an online model of yourself and "try on" clothes to see what styles/colors look best. Must go, check Basil's. Interview is supposed to post Sunday, but I don't know what time Sunday.
ReplyDeleteOK...it's unanimous! We ALL hate to shop! I'm fond of saying "I don't shop, I buy!" And it's generally true: I know what I need, I (usually) know where it is, I buy it. There are exceptions, like clothes and cars. I do "shop" for both. Shopping is relative, though. I could make an annual visit to a place like The Men's Wearhouse and be in and out in much less than an hour with business clothes to last me a year, back in the day.
ReplyDeleteBec: Anastasia is college bound. She's looking at the medical career area (not an MD), and wants to be a therapist. That was last year, and things are subject to change at her age.
You get some spectacular sunsets in your part of the world, too. I lived in the LA area for a while (graduated from North Torrance H.S.) and spent many an evening on Manhattan or Hermosa Beach watching the sun go down. It's hard to say where the best sunsets are...I agree with you that Big Sky country is really good.
Laurie: Thanks for the heads-up. I'm eagerly awaiting the interview!
I thought you were thanking me for the tip about virtual model for shopping. LOL! I had to put one slightly juicy tidbit in the interview, since you asked.
ReplyDeleteMy husband has to wear what he calls "girl britches" to work - and he hates them. I use to buy Dockers, but the legs are fashionably huge - another thing he hates. I buy his slacks at western stores where they sell Riata slacks - very nice and dressy withpout being baggy looking. They can be worn with a polo type shirt or a dress shirt. Jackets look nice too. Just some thoughts.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your granddaughter's graduation. I hope you have a wonderful time with your family.