tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18232353.post3494448795504762637..comments2023-12-27T13:35:09.431-07:00Comments on Exile in Portales: TimelyBuckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05319116022465066060noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18232353.post-47569351576180724762008-08-25T10:34:00.000-06:002008-08-25T10:34:00.000-06:00Jimmy T: I can relate to your tale. But providin...Jimmy T: I can relate to your tale. But providing security for Dubya just might be preferable to running around inside Iraq... even though "things" have cooled down quite a bit. OTOH, I can understand a Marine's desire to be where the action is. That desire extends to the other branches, as well, but I believe it's stronger in the Devil Dog bid'niz.<BR/><BR/>And you're certainly right about support groups and such, these days. It's night and day, compared to when you and I were in. There's NO comparison, actually!<BR/><BR/>Lou: I got your points in your original comment, but thanks for the clarification. You're right about fathers, in general. We're supposed to be stoic in the face of everything. Or so I've heard. <B>;-)</B> <== BIG ol' grin and wink.Buckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05319116022465066060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18232353.post-56661595616878440712008-08-25T05:50:00.000-06:002008-08-25T05:50:00.000-06:00Oops, I got Sam and Buck's kids confused. Sorry. ...Oops, I got Sam and Buck's kids confused. Sorry. Still, his family will be in my prayers.Bag Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01885412195900280096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18232353.post-26607423538132189532008-08-24T17:37:00.000-06:002008-08-24T17:37:00.000-06:00You fathers are as amazing as your sons. It has t...You fathers are as amazing as your sons. It has taken good men to raise good sons. Society accepts moms to show their emotions and worries, but fathers, well, not so much. Maybe fathers seem stronger or maybe they are still just being examples to their sons. SN1 will be in my prayers as will his wife and daughters and his dad.Bag Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01885412195900280096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18232353.post-47833474768974319992008-08-24T14:59:00.000-06:002008-08-24T14:59:00.000-06:00Buck, I feel your Pain -the emotional kind that is...Buck, I feel your Pain -the emotional kind that is. I was in your shoes a year ago when my SN2 (The Marine infantryman) was preparing to set sail and head to the sandbox himself. He off loaded in Kuwait in November and spent the next 5 months waiting for a mission into Iraq however, just the way things turned out his unit was never needed. <BR/><BR/>When the President visited Africa in March his unit was pulled out to do security for him in the two countries on that side of Africa. No action, he said he only fired is weapons on the Range only, for the entire deployment. <BR/><BR/>He returned in June and is, as we speak training for his next deployment which will occur early next year. We think Afghanistan this time as his unit has spent a lot of time in the barren mountains of southern California. <BR/><BR/>So, I hope all the best for your SN1 and all the members of his unit. There are so many support groups out there to help the parents of deployed service members. Not like in my day!!!<BR/><BR/>BT: Jimmy T sends.JimmyThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00595473108896212170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18232353.post-39603278208016888472008-08-24T13:30:00.000-06:002008-08-24T13:30:00.000-06:00Morgan sez: Every single concern you have about t...Morgan sez: <I>Every single concern you have about things, seems to bring two elves sitting on your shoulder, y'know?</I><BR/><BR/>You're SO right on this point, Morgan, especially about Mom doing more than her share of worrying. I probably should have chosen my words more carefully... as I'm more <I>concerned</I> than worried. Buck is a big boy and he'll do fine. Besides... there's a BIG difference between being a maintenance officer on a flight line and walking point on patrols in Sadr City. Apples and oranges, in the extreme.<BR/><BR/>All <I>that</I> said... I think I prefer being where I am in this father game, than where you are. I try and put myself in your place and imagine how I would deal with being a single parent to SN3... and it simply <I>does not compute.</I> I know I'd muddle through somehow, but life's Drama Quotient would increase by a factor of ten... at the VERY least. <BR/><BR/>Jenny: Thank ya, Ma'am!!Buckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05319116022465066060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18232353.post-66276740124026143152008-08-24T10:14:00.000-06:002008-08-24T10:14:00.000-06:00I pray for a safe mission and happy return home!I pray for a safe mission and happy return home!Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10967546226890745086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18232353.post-60357192547046647852008-08-23T22:44:00.000-06:002008-08-23T22:44:00.000-06:00September 2 is Atlas Shrugged Day. Perhaps somewhe...September 2 is Atlas Shrugged Day. Perhaps somewhere someone knows the story of why the date is significant. I don't. If you read the novel, you see everything meaningful that happens, happens on a 9/2, including the beginning of Part I Chapter One.<BR/><BR/>Just a coinkeedink, I guess.<BR/><BR/>You and SN1 will be in my thoughts. Right now, my fatherly concerns are MUCH less significant. Like:<BR/><BR/>Mom (five hundred miles away): How'd he do this morning?<BR/><BR/>Me: Great! He's riding his bike to school like a little trooper.<BR/><BR/>Mom: You're sure he's gonna be okay?<BR/><BR/>Me: No problem!<BR/><BR/>(Knocks on wooden table.)<BR/><BR/>Mom: What was that??<BR/><BR/>Me: Nuthin'.<BR/><BR/>Fatherhood. Every single concern you have about things, seems to bring two elves sitting on your shoulder, y'know? One's saying "you aren't worried nearly enough" and the other one's saying "you're going to think you're such a dork when this is over." I've often wondered how widowers deal with this. In my case, I lean toward the "don't worry so much" doppleganger because I know when it comes to being a worry-wart, the mother will do WAY MORE than enough, and there's a need for a stronger, calmer voice. But yeah. Can't understand your position yet, but I feel for this posting of yours. Every little thing that comes up, the conflict begins.<BR/><BR/>Great guy, from the looks of things. You are right to be so proud.mkfreeberghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13265933747192068934noreply@blogger.com